{"id":209946,"date":"2025-10-27T14:47:46","date_gmt":"2025-10-27T12:47:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/?p=209946"},"modified":"2025-10-30T14:11:30","modified_gmt":"2025-10-30T12:11:30","slug":"from-randfontein-to-auckland-a-journey-of-longing-faith-and-a-new-beginning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/en\/from-randfontein-to-auckland-a-journey-of-longing-faith-and-a-new-beginning\/","title":{"rendered":"From Randfontein to Auckland: A journey of longing, faith and a new beginning"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>I have a need to share my story<br><\/strong><em>By Jan\u00e9l Pretorius<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We have been living in New Zealand for six years now. On 20 January 2020, when I was 31, we landed with two small children, aged four and five. Just two months later, in March, the whole world closed down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The day I said goodbye to my parents at the airport, my last words were: \u201cSee you in June.\u201d Their tickets were already booked, the visa applications submitted and we waited &#8230; until 19 March 2020, when New Zealand closed its borders. The Lord had other plans, and I never had the privilege of showing my parents the life we had built from scratch here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every immigration path is different, the reasons for the decision, the adjustment, the moments of celebration and loss. It\u2019s hard to explain how one can be grateful and mourn at the same time; how one can feel happy as well as sad. There are days when I wish I could take my heart out of my chest for a while and put it on a shelf, just to not experience the pain. Yet I know without a doubt, that we are where we are meant to be, even if I sometimes do not know if it is a decision, a choice, a habit or simply peace. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedgallery .kb-gallery-type-grid.kb-gallery-id-209946_4e36ea-c2{margin:-5px;}.kb-gallery-type-grid.kb-gallery-id-209946_4e36ea-c2 .kadence-blocks-gallery-item{padding:5px;}.kb-gallery-id-209946_4e36ea-c2 .kadence-blocks-gallery-item .kb-gal-image-radius, .kb-gallery-id-209946_4e36ea-c2 .kb-slide-item .kb-gal-image-radius img{border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;;}<\/style><div class=\"kb-gallery-wrap-id-209946_4e36ea-c2 alignnone wp-block-kadence-advancedgallery\"><ul class=\"kb-gallery-ul kb-gallery-non-static kb-gallery-type-grid kb-gallery-id-209946_4e36ea-c2 kb-gallery-caption-style-bottom-hover kb-gallery-filter-none\" data-image-filter=\"none\" data-item-selector=\".kadence-blocks-gallery-item\" data-lightbox-caption=\"true\" data-columns-xxl=\"3\" data-columns-xl=\"3\" 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kadence-blocks-gallery-intrinsic kb-gallery-image-ratio-land32 kb-has-image-ratio-land32\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_6961-2048x1536.jpeg\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1536\" alt=\"\" data-full-image=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_6961-scaled.jpeg\" data-light-image=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_6961-scaled.jpeg\" data-id=\"209926\" class=\"wp-image-209926\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_6961-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_6961-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_6961-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_6961-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_6961-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 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https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_4318-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_4318-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_4318-scaled.jpeg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/figure><\/div><\/li><li class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item\" tabindex=\"0\"><div class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item-inner\"><figure class=\"kb-gallery-figure kadence-blocks-gallery-item-hide-caption\"><div class=\"kb-gal-image-radius\"><div class=\"kb-gallery-image-contain kadence-blocks-gallery-intrinsic kb-gallery-image-ratio-land32 kb-has-image-ratio-land32\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-2048x1600.jpeg\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1600\" alt=\"\" data-full-image=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-scaled.jpeg\" data-light-image=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-scaled.jpeg\" data-id=\"209937\" class=\"wp-image-209937\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-2048x1600.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-300x234.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-1024x800.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-768x600.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1-1-1536x1200.jpeg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/figure><\/div><\/li><li class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item\" tabindex=\"0\"><div class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item-inner\"><figure class=\"kb-gallery-figure kadence-blocks-gallery-item-hide-caption\"><div class=\"kb-gal-image-radius\"><div class=\"kb-gallery-image-contain kadence-blocks-gallery-intrinsic kb-gallery-image-ratio-land32 kb-has-image-ratio-land32\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0806-2048x1536.jpeg\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1536\" alt=\"\" data-full-image=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0806-scaled.jpeg\" data-light-image=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0806-scaled.jpeg\" data-id=\"209939\" class=\"wp-image-209939\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0806-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0806-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0806-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0806-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0806-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/figure><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n<p>I am a teacher. I taught in South Africa for ten years and now for six years here. We came after I got a job. We landed on a Wednesday and on Thursday \u2013 after 28 hours of flying and tears \u2013 I stood in front of my new class.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My husband, a true Jack of all trades, decided to complete a qualification during Covid. Today he is thriving in a profession that would never have been possible for him in South Africa. There we lived from hand to mouth, here we live well, and I realise what a blessing it is, because not everyone can say the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our children are proudly South African, proudly Afrikaans. Maybe more than they would have been if we had stayed in South Africa. My son\u2019s 10th birthday party even had a Springbok theme! They always proudly say: \u201cWe don\u2019t speak South African, we speak Afrikaans.\u201d And when someone calls them \u201cAfricans,\u201d they correct it: \u201cWe are Afrikaners.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8582-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-209914\" style=\"width:320px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8582-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8582-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8582-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8582-1536x2048.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8582-scaled.jpeg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>At the school where I work, 11 of the 17 high school teachers are South Africans. In my own classes more than half of the children are South African. My own children live on the sports field. That is where we met most of our friends. My son\u2019s rugby team had seven South Africans and my daughter\u2019s hockey team four.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Kiwis are wonderful people, but our social circle consists mainly of South Africans. It wasn\u2019t a decision, it is just how life happened. Sometimes we did have braais with strange families, but one soon realises: not everyone are ducks from your pond.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In our house we only speak Afrikaans. The children hear enough English throughout the day. Many parents change languages to \u201cadjust\u201d, but we didn\u2019t. Sometimes they translate from English and say funny things, but we correct them. It is our responsibility to keep Afrikaans alive. They were small when we moved, with limited vocabulary, and it is our job to help their Afrikaans grow.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_3643-1024x768.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-209912\" style=\"width:552px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_3643-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_3643-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_3643-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_3643-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_3643-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Last week my son referred to a tiger as a \u201cstriped horse\u201d. After we all finished laughing, he explained: But it\u2019s like a leopard!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those first two years were the hardest. I remember three days that will always remain etched in my heart forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first was my son\u2019s birthday, barely two months after we arrived. In South Africa birthdays were always filled with people, laughter and cake, here it was only the three of us. I phoned the school and said I was sick. We went to see the animals, ate ice cream and then stopped at the South African shop. The smell of Oros, milk tart and Cheese Curls overwhelmed me. I burst into tears and the lady behind the counter just quietly held me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The second was our first Christmas here. In South Africa it was always big \u2013 family, music, food and laughter. Here the four of us sat around the tree, eating finger foods and reading the Bible. It was the first Christmas without my father and without my mother\u2019s presence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The third was my second birthday here, the first one where my father\u2019s call didn\u2019t come anymore. I was far from my mother and the day felt empty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But we are privileged. My sister-in-law and her family moved here two years after us. Now Sundays, birthdays and sport days are no longer so quiet. There is always someone who attends the children\u2019s \u201cGrandparent\u2019s Day and if she can\u2019t, other angels make sure they are never alone.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedgallery .kb-gallery-type-grid.kb-gallery-id-209946_857c90-5b{margin:-5px;}.kb-gallery-type-grid.kb-gallery-id-209946_857c90-5b .kadence-blocks-gallery-item{padding:5px;}.kb-gallery-id-209946_857c90-5b .kadence-blocks-gallery-item .kb-gal-image-radius, .kb-gallery-id-209946_857c90-5b .kb-slide-item .kb-gal-image-radius img{border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;;}<\/style><div class=\"kb-gallery-wrap-id-209946_857c90-5b alignnone wp-block-kadence-advancedgallery\"><ul class=\"kb-gallery-ul kb-gallery-non-static kb-gallery-type-grid kb-gallery-id-209946_857c90-5b kb-gallery-caption-style-bottom-hover kb-gallery-filter-none\" data-image-filter=\"none\" data-item-selector=\".kadence-blocks-gallery-item\" data-lightbox-caption=\"true\" data-columns-xxl=\"2\" data-columns-xl=\"2\" data-columns-md=\"2\" data-columns-sm=\"2\" data-columns-xs=\"1\" data-columns-ss=\"1\"><li class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item\" tabindex=\"0\"><div class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item-inner\"><figure class=\"kb-gallery-figure kadence-blocks-gallery-item-hide-caption\"><div class=\"kb-gal-image-radius\"><div class=\"kb-gallery-image-contain kadence-blocks-gallery-intrinsic kb-gallery-image-ratio-land32 kb-has-image-ratio-land32\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2283-1024x683.jpeg\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" alt=\"\" data-full-image=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2283-scaled.jpeg\" data-light-image=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2283-scaled.jpeg\" data-id=\"209918\" class=\"wp-image-209918\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2283-1024x683.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2283-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2283-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2283-1536x1024.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2283-2048x1365.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/figure><\/div><\/li><li class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item\" tabindex=\"0\"><div class=\"kadence-blocks-gallery-item-inner\"><figure class=\"kb-gallery-figure kadence-blocks-gallery-item-hide-caption\"><div class=\"kb-gal-image-radius\"><div class=\"kb-gallery-image-contain kadence-blocks-gallery-intrinsic kb-gallery-image-ratio-land32 kb-has-image-ratio-land32\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2440-1024x768.jpeg\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" alt=\"\" data-full-image=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2440-scaled.jpeg\" data-light-image=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2440-scaled.jpeg\" data-id=\"209916\" class=\"wp-image-209916\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2440-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2440-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2440-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2440-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/wereldwyd.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_2440-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/figure><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n<p>We also have family here: my cousins, my husband\u2019s cousins and even though we don\u2019t see each other often, it helps to know they are here. We were even able to be part of my sister-in-law\u2019s pregnancy, and my children now have a cousin in New Zealand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Six years later I can honestly say: we are happy. We have found our place and our people. Our children are thriving. I am grateful for my work. My husband is growing daily. We work hard, but we live.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Regards<br><em>Jan\u00e9l Pretorius<\/em><br>Auckland, New Zealand<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-column.kb-section-dir-horizontal > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kt-info-box209946_503c0a-bd .kt-blocks-info-box-link-wrap{max-width:unset;}.kt-info-box209946_503c0a-bd .kt-blocks-info-box-link-wrap{border-top:5px solid var(--global-palette7, #eeeeee);border-right:5px solid var(--global-palette7, #eeeeee);border-bottom:5px solid var(--global-palette7, #eeeeee);border-left:5px solid var(--global-palette7, #eeeeee);border-top-left-radius:20px;border-top-right-radius:20px;border-bottom-right-radius:20px;border-bottom-left-radius:20px;background:#ffffff;padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-xs, 1rem);padding-right:var(--global-kb-spacing-xs, 1rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-xs, 1rem);padding-left:var(--global-kb-spacing-xs, 1rem);}.kt-info-box209946_503c0a-bd .kadence-info-box-icon-container .kt-info-svg-icon, .kt-info-box209946_503c0a-bd 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